I tend to like older men. I like when a man can make me feel safe and secure and loved without smothering me. Usually older men are more secure and dont try and change me, they just accept me. Bijou says. Whats not to accept? And we wouldnt change a thing either, shes perfect! The feeling of someone caring for me and knowing they just love me for me, that is wonderful. It makes me feel free to love them completely. We love you too Bijou, dont forget us!